With emotional intelligence combined with personality responsibility you can consciously choose the life you live and live the life you choose.
The following is a request for advice that I received and my response. I removed the names to protect the privacy of the writer. The writer wants to know what do do after a bad boss wrecked her life. I hope that posting this letter and answer will support and inspire others. Your comments are welcome.
Hello Mr. Liberti,
The past year has been absolute hell for me. My bullying boss caused me to go out on stress leave; then ultimately have a nervous breakdown, two suicide attempts - result? multiple psych diagnosis’ and medications and finally, loss of my job. He destroyed my reputation within the organization, and has left me with somewhat a form of PTSD that for now, prevents me from answering to a manager.
Our lives are now in shambles as I have lost an $84,000 a year job and we live off my husbands $3000 per month before taxes. Needless to say, we are on the verge of bankruptcy and possibly losing our house while I try to get well and overcome the trauma this man has caused me and my family. I don’t feel as if I have any way of getting restitution. I’m left with constant thoughts that it is not right that he should be able to destroy somebody’s life the way he has done mine and get away with it. What would your advice be?
Most desperately wishing somebody would help me,
(Name withheld to protect this writer's privacy.)
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Excellent posts to read. Keep it up and keep going on this way. And keep sharing these types of things. Thanks!
Posted by: Mac Keylogger | November 28, 2011 at 12:14 AM